Ever wonder how everything seems to get done without you lifting a finger? How somehow the clothes are always clean and nicely pressed, how the socks always have a twin, how the bed is always made, how the food is ready when needed, how there is never a lack of groceries, how the kids get to and from school, how their homework gets done, how their teeth are clean, how their hair is brushed, etc. etc... Must be the infamous house fairy that waves her magic wand when you aren't paying attention, right? Ha...only if!
Fact is, I know and realize something now that I was blind to for a very long time. As are you....yes you my dear readers. What in the world is this woman going on about, you may be asking. Just hold your horses...i have a point here. Gosh...impatient aren't we. Alright, where was I? Oh right, something we're all blind to...
How does everything get done? Wait for it....wait for it....drum roll please.......by the lady of the house of course! Duh!!
It's kinda sad how we take our wives, mothers, sisters, and daughters for granted. It's an expectation that they take care of it all. I mean what else are they doing anyway right. It's not like they work or anything. Umm..check again will ya? Who is the person who is up before the rooster crows and is ensuring breakfast is made, lunches are prepared, clothes are set out, bathroom has all the needed supplies, shoes are where they need to be.... yes you got it. It's the lady of the house! Then once she sees everyone off for the day, whether it be for school, or work, she begins the rest of her day. Including finally feeding herself. On any typical day, a wife/mother has to clean, organize, grocery shop, attend school meetings, buy house/school supplies, cook, do laundry, fold laundry, cook some more, go pick up a kid because they are sick, make inquisitorial calls for multiple purposes, ensure everything is how it's supposed to be for when the husband and kids return, and more. Then after dinner, most of the above takes place again and she is usually the last to go to bed. So much can be detailed of their contributions, but no one will have the patience to read it all... What we fail to understand is how much skill it takes to keep all the balls juggling. Let me explain.
First off, a woman does all this for her house because she looks at it as a blessing. This we must try and understand. Yes, you may be shaking your head, because you have heard her complain once or twice about everything she has to do, but seriously. Every girl dreams of having a perfect wedding, and a perfect house full of love. That marriage and house has its share of responsibilities, and a woman takes pride in accomplishing said responsibilities. She is happy when her family is happy and satisfied. This is a fact!
Second, do you have any idea what sort of knowledge, understanding, patience, skills, and mastery is required in a person to do everything listed above and more that isn't mentioned? To be able to juggle everything with perfection, a woman must be born with circus skills, eh? No. There are many degree programs in universities that one can earn to learn just half of what the lady of the house does. Programs like, 'Program Management', 'Nursing', 'Psychology', 'Organizational Development', 'Communications', 'Hospitality', 'Financial Planning', 'Supply Chain Management', 'Family and Child Services', and so many others. Seeing this artist at work every day, utilizing several different aspects of these university programs, must give you pause. To think, that some of them not having formal education can still manage what they do is nothing less than amazing!
Alright, I know it's not mother's day, and I am not on a high horse to publicly defend all women. There are those (like me) who don't do what a woman with a full house of husband and children does. But the purpose behind this piece of writing is to stand humbly in front of the women in our lives and thank them for their relentless services for us. By the grace of the Almighty we have been blessed with such unique and wonderful women who do so much for us and ask for so little in return. There shouldn't be just one day dedicated to these cherished ladies...we should thank them often. Every day actually! Treat them with the respect and honor they deserve. Because I assure you, you would certainly notice their absence if they were to not be there for even one day. As you would not be able to answer the question of the ages...."Mom, where is my shoe?"
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I would like to dedicate this particular blog to a few women in my life that have made a definite impact. I begin with my magnificent mother. You have been there for me no matter what and I am ever so grateful for you mom. My amazing sisters. You two are inspirational to me. You have despite all obstacles, raised such beautiful and intelligent children. And no, I did not forget my lovely sister-in-law. She has been there to support my brother through all his medical trials he has had to face, while taking care of everything that needed taking care of.
Who are the women in your life that you can say thank you to?
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