Aye jaate hue lamho zara tehro zara tehro
Main bhi tu chalta hun....
Oh passing moments, wait a while...wait a while
I shall join you too...
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You never knew i knew other languages did you? I know several actually. This one is called Hindi.
Sometimes you can wrack your brain for the right words, the right thing to say at the right time, but you're left standing alone, having said nothing at all. Moments pass, days, then weeks and months... I wrote a piece about time recently, but this one is about hope...hope that the missed moments would wait for you to catch up with them. Wouldn't that be something!
So many missed opportunities for hugs, laughter, cuddling, enjoying each others company....moments of love that are now gone. Wish time would stop. Stand still...even for brief periods. You could do much with stolen time...a bunch of do overs. Say I love you more. Tell someone you care. Stop them from leaving. Not leave yourself. Stay in the embrace. In the arms of your loved one... a loved one you may never see again.
Oh time...why are you in a hurry? Why don't you stay awhile...wait for me...
Friday, July 31, 2015
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
Mom, where is my shoe...?
Ever wonder how everything seems to get done without you lifting a finger? How somehow the clothes are always clean and nicely pressed, how the socks always have a twin, how the bed is always made, how the food is ready when needed, how there is never a lack of groceries, how the kids get to and from school, how their homework gets done, how their teeth are clean, how their hair is brushed, etc. etc... Must be the infamous house fairy that waves her magic wand when you aren't paying attention, right? Ha...only if!
Fact is, I know and realize something now that I was blind to for a very long time. As are you....yes you my dear readers. What in the world is this woman going on about, you may be asking. Just hold your horses...i have a point here. Gosh...impatient aren't we. Alright, where was I? Oh right, something we're all blind to...
How does everything get done? Wait for it....wait for it....drum roll please.......by the lady of the house of course! Duh!!
It's kinda sad how we take our wives, mothers, sisters, and daughters for granted. It's an expectation that they take care of it all. I mean what else are they doing anyway right. It's not like they work or anything. Umm..check again will ya? Who is the person who is up before the rooster crows and is ensuring breakfast is made, lunches are prepared, clothes are set out, bathroom has all the needed supplies, shoes are where they need to be.... yes you got it. It's the lady of the house! Then once she sees everyone off for the day, whether it be for school, or work, she begins the rest of her day. Including finally feeding herself. On any typical day, a wife/mother has to clean, organize, grocery shop, attend school meetings, buy house/school supplies, cook, do laundry, fold laundry, cook some more, go pick up a kid because they are sick, make inquisitorial calls for multiple purposes, ensure everything is how it's supposed to be for when the husband and kids return, and more. Then after dinner, most of the above takes place again and she is usually the last to go to bed. So much can be detailed of their contributions, but no one will have the patience to read it all... What we fail to understand is how much skill it takes to keep all the balls juggling. Let me explain.
First off, a woman does all this for her house because she looks at it as a blessing. This we must try and understand. Yes, you may be shaking your head, because you have heard her complain once or twice about everything she has to do, but seriously. Every girl dreams of having a perfect wedding, and a perfect house full of love. That marriage and house has its share of responsibilities, and a woman takes pride in accomplishing said responsibilities. She is happy when her family is happy and satisfied. This is a fact!
Second, do you have any idea what sort of knowledge, understanding, patience, skills, and mastery is required in a person to do everything listed above and more that isn't mentioned? To be able to juggle everything with perfection, a woman must be born with circus skills, eh? No. There are many degree programs in universities that one can earn to learn just half of what the lady of the house does. Programs like, 'Program Management', 'Nursing', 'Psychology', 'Organizational Development', 'Communications', 'Hospitality', 'Financial Planning', 'Supply Chain Management', 'Family and Child Services', and so many others. Seeing this artist at work every day, utilizing several different aspects of these university programs, must give you pause. To think, that some of them not having formal education can still manage what they do is nothing less than amazing!
Alright, I know it's not mother's day, and I am not on a high horse to publicly defend all women. There are those (like me) who don't do what a woman with a full house of husband and children does. But the purpose behind this piece of writing is to stand humbly in front of the women in our lives and thank them for their relentless services for us. By the grace of the Almighty we have been blessed with such unique and wonderful women who do so much for us and ask for so little in return. There shouldn't be just one day dedicated to these cherished ladies...we should thank them often. Every day actually! Treat them with the respect and honor they deserve. Because I assure you, you would certainly notice their absence if they were to not be there for even one day. As you would not be able to answer the question of the ages...."Mom, where is my shoe?"
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I would like to dedicate this particular blog to a few women in my life that have made a definite impact. I begin with my magnificent mother. You have been there for me no matter what and I am ever so grateful for you mom. My amazing sisters. You two are inspirational to me. You have despite all obstacles, raised such beautiful and intelligent children. And no, I did not forget my lovely sister-in-law. She has been there to support my brother through all his medical trials he has had to face, while taking care of everything that needed taking care of.
Who are the women in your life that you can say thank you to?
Fact is, I know and realize something now that I was blind to for a very long time. As are you....yes you my dear readers. What in the world is this woman going on about, you may be asking. Just hold your horses...i have a point here. Gosh...impatient aren't we. Alright, where was I? Oh right, something we're all blind to...
How does everything get done? Wait for it....wait for it....drum roll please.......by the lady of the house of course! Duh!!
It's kinda sad how we take our wives, mothers, sisters, and daughters for granted. It's an expectation that they take care of it all. I mean what else are they doing anyway right. It's not like they work or anything. Umm..check again will ya? Who is the person who is up before the rooster crows and is ensuring breakfast is made, lunches are prepared, clothes are set out, bathroom has all the needed supplies, shoes are where they need to be.... yes you got it. It's the lady of the house! Then once she sees everyone off for the day, whether it be for school, or work, she begins the rest of her day. Including finally feeding herself. On any typical day, a wife/mother has to clean, organize, grocery shop, attend school meetings, buy house/school supplies, cook, do laundry, fold laundry, cook some more, go pick up a kid because they are sick, make inquisitorial calls for multiple purposes, ensure everything is how it's supposed to be for when the husband and kids return, and more. Then after dinner, most of the above takes place again and she is usually the last to go to bed. So much can be detailed of their contributions, but no one will have the patience to read it all... What we fail to understand is how much skill it takes to keep all the balls juggling. Let me explain.
First off, a woman does all this for her house because she looks at it as a blessing. This we must try and understand. Yes, you may be shaking your head, because you have heard her complain once or twice about everything she has to do, but seriously. Every girl dreams of having a perfect wedding, and a perfect house full of love. That marriage and house has its share of responsibilities, and a woman takes pride in accomplishing said responsibilities. She is happy when her family is happy and satisfied. This is a fact!
Second, do you have any idea what sort of knowledge, understanding, patience, skills, and mastery is required in a person to do everything listed above and more that isn't mentioned? To be able to juggle everything with perfection, a woman must be born with circus skills, eh? No. There are many degree programs in universities that one can earn to learn just half of what the lady of the house does. Programs like, 'Program Management', 'Nursing', 'Psychology', 'Organizational Development', 'Communications', 'Hospitality', 'Financial Planning', 'Supply Chain Management', 'Family and Child Services', and so many others. Seeing this artist at work every day, utilizing several different aspects of these university programs, must give you pause. To think, that some of them not having formal education can still manage what they do is nothing less than amazing!
Alright, I know it's not mother's day, and I am not on a high horse to publicly defend all women. There are those (like me) who don't do what a woman with a full house of husband and children does. But the purpose behind this piece of writing is to stand humbly in front of the women in our lives and thank them for their relentless services for us. By the grace of the Almighty we have been blessed with such unique and wonderful women who do so much for us and ask for so little in return. There shouldn't be just one day dedicated to these cherished ladies...we should thank them often. Every day actually! Treat them with the respect and honor they deserve. Because I assure you, you would certainly notice their absence if they were to not be there for even one day. As you would not be able to answer the question of the ages...."Mom, where is my shoe?"
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I would like to dedicate this particular blog to a few women in my life that have made a definite impact. I begin with my magnificent mother. You have been there for me no matter what and I am ever so grateful for you mom. My amazing sisters. You two are inspirational to me. You have despite all obstacles, raised such beautiful and intelligent children. And no, I did not forget my lovely sister-in-law. She has been there to support my brother through all his medical trials he has had to face, while taking care of everything that needed taking care of.
Who are the women in your life that you can say thank you to?
Friday, July 24, 2015
Please stand up!
Will the person who cares please stand up.
Will the person that once loved please stand up.
Will the person who made promises please stand up.
Will the person who's hurting please stand up.
Will the person who's causing pain please stand up.
Will the person who once understood please stand up.
Will the person who is explaining please stand up.
Will the person who has lost sight of reality please stand up.
Will the person who simply doesn't care anymore please stand up.
Wait....is the same person standing up for every statement?
No no...don't you see that poor individual in the back hiding behind that pillar?
She must be the saddest person I've ever laid eyes on....
Will the person that once loved please stand up.
Will the person who made promises please stand up.
Will the person who's hurting please stand up.
Will the person who's causing pain please stand up.
Will the person who once understood please stand up.
Will the person who is explaining please stand up.
Will the person who has lost sight of reality please stand up.
Will the person who simply doesn't care anymore please stand up.
Wait....is the same person standing up for every statement?
No no...don't you see that poor individual in the back hiding behind that pillar?
She must be the saddest person I've ever laid eyes on....
Comfort
Where can comfort be found?
Can it only be found in the arms of a loved on?
No!
Comfort can be captured by drowning your sorrows in alcohol...
Comfort can be attained by leaning on a hand rail at a church parking lot...
Comfort can be gathered by walking by yourself, clearing your thoughts...
Comfort can be found by burrying your head in a pillow and crying...
Comfort can be collected by sitting in the car by yourself...
Comfort can come from any which way...
Just be open to receiving it.
However, if you're finding comfort in someone....a someone who belongs to another... That's the same as robing Peter to pay Paul. It's theft. It's betrayal. It's deceit.
You cannot take comfort in someone by causing another pain.
If you do...you're the worst kind of person.
Instead, take comfort in God my soul. For He alone can fill my heart with joy.
Where can comfort be found?
Can it only be found in the arms of a loved on?
No!
Comfort can be captured by drowning your sorrows in alcohol...
Comfort can be attained by leaning on a hand rail at a church parking lot...
Comfort can be gathered by walking by yourself, clearing your thoughts...
Comfort can be found by burrying your head in a pillow and crying...
Comfort can be collected by sitting in the car by yourself...
Comfort can come from any which way...
Just be open to receiving it.
However, if you're finding comfort in someone....a someone who belongs to another... That's the same as robing Peter to pay Paul. It's theft. It's betrayal. It's deceit.
You cannot take comfort in someone by causing another pain.
If you do...you're the worst kind of person.
Instead, take comfort in God my soul. For He alone can fill my heart with joy.
Where can comfort be found?
Wednesday, July 22, 2015
Time
Ever wonder what you could accomplish if you had the ability to manipulate time?
To go back...
To move past...
People don't change they say....
I say, time changes us all.
What we were, we will never be again..
What we want to be, is too far away..
And here we are...in the moment...now
To say hurtful things...to be mean to each other...
Wondering whatever happened to the love we shared...
To to happy times...
Anticipating whether they will return...
Or are they forever gone?
Time changes us all...
Don't make an enemy of time.
It doesn't take your offenses lightly...
Time is no friend to any...
One day it will end you.
To go back...
To move past...
People don't change they say....
I say, time changes us all.
What we were, we will never be again..
What we want to be, is too far away..
And here we are...in the moment...now
To say hurtful things...to be mean to each other...
Wondering whatever happened to the love we shared...
To to happy times...
Anticipating whether they will return...
Or are they forever gone?
Time changes us all...
Don't make an enemy of time.
It doesn't take your offenses lightly...
Time is no friend to any...
One day it will end you.
Thursday, July 9, 2015
Do you know what pain is?
Pain is not feeling anything anymore
not feeling hurts more than a gun shot or even child birth
given I haven't gone through either of those...
but I am fairly confident that I am right (you're right, i am full of crap)
Pain is seeing someone you love and not being able to recognize them
Pain is watching the one you love walk around as if you didn't exist
as if you were part of the furniture...
Pain is not being able to express yourself except in mean, snide, and cruel remarks
Pain is not being able to say I miss you and I need a hug...
Pain is not being able to forget
Pain is flipping and flopping all night to be woken up to a dream where your father is casting demons out of you...
Pain is not being able to say I need to be held
no words of comfort...no small talk...
Pain is putting one foot in front of the other and to keep moving forward
without a goal or purpose...
without a dream or care...
without an acknowledgement from anyone...
that you exist!
Do you know what pain is?
not feeling hurts more than a gun shot or even child birth
given I haven't gone through either of those...
but I am fairly confident that I am right (you're right, i am full of crap)
Pain is seeing someone you love and not being able to recognize them
Pain is watching the one you love walk around as if you didn't exist
as if you were part of the furniture...
Pain is not being able to express yourself except in mean, snide, and cruel remarks
Pain is not being able to say I miss you and I need a hug...
Pain is not being able to forget
Pain is flipping and flopping all night to be woken up to a dream where your father is casting demons out of you...
Pain is not being able to say I need to be held
no words of comfort...no small talk...
Pain is putting one foot in front of the other and to keep moving forward
without a goal or purpose...
without a dream or care...
without an acknowledgement from anyone...
that you exist!
Do you know what pain is?
Pay Attention
I wish people would pay attention. See what's actually happening around them. Not follow the masses.
People like me are considered backward. Not open minded. Anti this, that or the other.
Ever think that people like me are the ones who are targeted because we aren't following the masses? We take the path least walked on. We aren't blind to this world and where it is headed. We see it all, and we chose not to join in. We make a stand against it. It takes more guts to do what we do, then what everyone else is doing.
Everyone else is taking the easy route. The route that allows them not to think. Not to make a decision for themselves. Oh everyone else is going this way, let us too walk in the same direction.
But behold, there is only one end to that path my friends.
The path of the righteous has never been easy. I do not consider myself above anyone else. I simply hold my beliefs close to my heart and not allow the pressures of this world to take them away from me. I see what is right in front of me, and also what is not spelled out plainly.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. To many out there, I may come across as not caring. The truth is far from that. My words may not reflect that, as I try never to come across as vulnerable. Honestly, I care too much. My heart pains from the cares. I care so deeply and so fully that I physically ache.
Though you may not believe...I have raised you all up to my Lord. May He guide us always!
People like me are considered backward. Not open minded. Anti this, that or the other.
Ever think that people like me are the ones who are targeted because we aren't following the masses? We take the path least walked on. We aren't blind to this world and where it is headed. We see it all, and we chose not to join in. We make a stand against it. It takes more guts to do what we do, then what everyone else is doing.
Everyone else is taking the easy route. The route that allows them not to think. Not to make a decision for themselves. Oh everyone else is going this way, let us too walk in the same direction.
But behold, there is only one end to that path my friends.
The path of the righteous has never been easy. I do not consider myself above anyone else. I simply hold my beliefs close to my heart and not allow the pressures of this world to take them away from me. I see what is right in front of me, and also what is not spelled out plainly.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. To many out there, I may come across as not caring. The truth is far from that. My words may not reflect that, as I try never to come across as vulnerable. Honestly, I care too much. My heart pains from the cares. I care so deeply and so fully that I physically ache.
Though you may not believe...I have raised you all up to my Lord. May He guide us always!
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